How having sex with my friend and her husband made me lose myself. When he returned, he sat beside me instead of his wife, who was.
Recently, my wife told me that her friend wants to join us for a sex session and my wife is okay with it.
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE been an idiot and had sex with my wife's best friend. I can't live with the guilt. Do I come clean about it and risk losing.