We're talking touching, licking, fingering, penetration, and more. If you have a butt and you want it touched, butt play is for you. Cisgender men and people assigned male at birth have a prostate, so in these cases a butt.
Meanwhile, it's essentially the key to enjoyable anal play for both men and women well, besides lube. Always use lots and lots of lube during anal.
Anal sex or anal intercourse is generally the insertion and thrusting of the erect penis into a person's anus, or anus and rectum, for sexual pleasure. Other forms of anal sex include fingering, the use of sex toys for anal penetration, oral sex performed on the anus (anilingus), While anal sex is commonly associated with male homosexuality, research.